It’s kept me awake more nights than one, and for a good reason. Research suggests the average age boys are introduced to porn is eleven, as in tuck-me-into-bed-daddy eleven.
The Queen and I first met at a bar. It’s not something we advertise. Similar stories usually end in hook ups and poorly.
If divorce has taught me anything, it’s that a father can’t be all things to his children, and certainly not his sons. Even with the best of intentions, no man can possess every ingredient needed to nurture a boy into healthy manhood.
It’s been a tool of intimidation and means of control ever since divorce, custody, and visitation replaced love, honor, and commitment. It’s the dark fear of some and the angelic hope of others. Fantasized by many; dreaded by many more. It’s that day circled on nearly every divorced parent’s calendar when the law says kids can choose their custody.